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Step 6: Choose the wisest option

I hear you saying, “Wait a minute, that’s it? You’re kidding, right?” No, I’m not kidding. If you’ve followed the steps above, you’re ready to make a decision. So make it already. In all seriousness, if you’ve prayerfully followed the previous steps the wisest option has most likely become very obvious by now. Good decision-making is not rocket science; it’s simply a matter of being deliberate and prayerfully choosing the wisest option.

The key word in that sentence is, of course, “prayerfully”. Each step of the process must be bathed in prayer. The Holy Spirit guides us in this process if we are paying attention. If an option violates God’s Moral Will, the Holy Spirit will warn us. If our motives are impure, the Spirit will convict us. He will guide us through our research and analysis, and God will grant us wisdom just as He promised through the Holy Spirit. If God so chooses, He will supernaturally intervene to influence our decision. In the end, however, we must decide and trust that His mercy and sovereignty will reign over the details that are beyond our knowledge or control.

As I’ve mentioned before, we’re talking about godly wisdom here as opposed to human wisdom. James makes it clear (James 3:13-17) that godly wisdom is guided by different criteria. For example, evaluating a career choice based on how our God-given talents can be best leveraged for the Kingdom, rather than simply based on salary and benefits. Choosing a true “helpmate” as a spouse or simply marrying a “hottie.” These are simplistic examples, but you get the point. Wisdom is an evaluation of criteria and as Christians we have different criteria.

Step 7: Make plans and stick to them until God gives other guidance

The decision-making process is not complete until you have decided not only what to do, but how to do it. Depending on the type of decision this may be a simple step or the most complex step of the entire process. Nevertheless, a good decision can be sabotaged by bad planning or a lack of perseverance.

Planning and perseverance are related topics that probably deserve their own series of posts. They both require humble submission to the sovereignty of God. No matter how thorough our decision-making process, our vision is limited. We don’t know what lies ahead. We make plans based on what we know, realizing that they may need to change in the future. James 4:13 does not discourage us from making plans, but it encourages us to do so humbly, with an understanding that only God’s plans are guaranteed to succeed.

Until God clearly points us in another direction, however, we must persevere. Opposition or difficulty is not automatically a sign that our plan is a bad one. Paul spoke of his plans to visit both the Roman church (Romans 1:13) and the Corinthian church (2 Corinthians 1:15-17), but in both cases his plans had thus far been frustrated. Nevertheless he persisted with his plans, seeing no reason to change them. If your decision was made wisely, stick to your plan until God makes it abundantly clear He has a new direction. Don’t quit just because things aren’t working out the way you planned. Until God clearly gives you a new direction, stay the course.

In my next post on this subject, I’ll address other decision-making “tools” such as fleeces. It will probably be my last post on this topic for a while…at least, that’s my plan.

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Once the decision-making process has passed the test of God’s Moral Will, we can move on to the next steps. Before we move on, however, I have to re-emphasize the importance of steps 1 and 2. Too often we’re tempted to cop-out and give only a brief thought to these questions. Even when God’s Moral Will does not short-circuit the decision-making process, taking time to thoroughly evaluate God’s Word as it applies to our situation is infinitely beneficial as we move on through the rest of the process.

Step 3: Pray for wisdom

Paul prays for the Colossian church that God would fill them “with the knowledge of his will through all spiritual wisdom and understanding.” (Colossians 1:9) Here Paul explicitly states we receive knowledge of God’s will through spiritual wisdom and understanding. Paul prays a similar prayer for the Ephesian church in Ephesians 1:17. That’s not a denial of miraculous direct revelation. Such revelation is always a possibility and we must be sensitive to the voice of the Spirit just as Paul was in Acts 16. It seems clear to me, however, that Paul had a holistic view of the work of the Holy Spirit. Paul recognized the involvement of the Spirit in all he did, whether there was a miraculous revelation or not. We should have the same perspective, realizing that the Spirit speaks through the miraculous and the mundane. The key is to seek godly wisdom in all of our decisions. James encourages us, “If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously without finding fault, and it will be given to him.” James1:5-6 Proverbs reminds us (in the voice of Wisdom personified) “I love those who love me, and those who seek me find me.” Proverbs 8:17 Be careful to note that I’m talking about godly wisdom here, not worldly wisdom. 1 Corinthians 1:18-21 makes clear that there is a distinct difference between the two. The wisdom that comes from God makes the spiritual and eternal things our highest priority, the wisdom of this world places the priority on the physical and the temporary.

Step 4: Do your homework

This is another step that many of us want to shortcut. There are no shortcuts, take the time to research your options and weigh the pros and cons. Nehemiah knew what he wanted to do, he knew it was God’s will for him to accomplish it. Yet the first thing he did when he arrived at Jerusalem was to evaluate the situation and gather information so he could proceed wisely. (Nehemiah 2:11-16) Joshua knew that God had promised him success in conquering the Promised Land, yet the first thing he does is to send out spies to scout out their situation. (Joshua 2) Even when we do receive direct, supernatural direction from God, it does not relieve us from our responsibility to be careful and wise in our decision-making. We cannot make good decisions without carefully counting the cost (Luke 14:28).

Step 5: Seek godly counsel

Once we’ve done our homework, it’s time to begin evaluating options. This should not be done in a vacuum. God has created us to be creatures of community, relying on the strengths of the body of Christ. No decision should ever be made without the input of wise friends and advisors within the body of Christ. This is true for all decisions at all levels. Even the Apostles made a corporate decision-making process. Flying solo in the decision-making process is a recipe for failure. (Proverbs 15:22)

When seeking out counselors, look for mature believers with a variety of perspectives. Don’t look for people who think just like you do. Seek the opinions of those who see things differently. If you’re an emotional person, seek out the opinion of someone who is more logical. If you’re an impulsive person, seek out the opinion of someone who is more deliberate. Get the perspective of the opposite sex. Seeking godly counsel is a research project of its own.

Hang in there, only two more steps to go!

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I love living in the Detroit area. I’m not blind to its problems but I’m not blind to its positive attributes, either. One of the best things about living in the Detroit area these days is the Labor Day weekend music extravaganza. The Detroit International Jazz Festival is one of the largest free jazz music festivals in the world and now with Pontiac’s Arts, Beats and Eats festival, there’s high quality music of every style imaginable available at the best price of all…free.

I’ve been heading downtown to the jazz festival for 25 years, though not every year. The last few years we’ve done Arts, Beats and Eats instead. This year, Lori and I went back downtown and had a blast. They’ve expanded the jazz fest over the last few years, both in size and musical scope. I still tend to gravitate towards the traditionalist forms of jazz. Here are some of the highlights:

• Jazzistry: What a cool idea. An audible journey tracing the history of jazz all the way from its roots 150 years ago to today.
• Ferndale H.S. Jazz Band: These kids are REALLY good, especially for a high school group. (Great job Josh!)
• Organissimo: I love the sound of a B3 played by someone who really knows how and Jim Alfredson really, really knows how. Unfortunately, I only caught the end of their set. I’ll have to try to catch them at Baker’s Keyboard Lounge someday.
• Jaco Pastorius Word of Mouth Big Band featuring Will Lee: This was some of the best jazz I’ve ever heard. Will Lee was…well, I just can’t find the words. Amazing doesn’t nearly cover it. Hiram Bulloch sat in on a few tunes and he was great, too.

If you’re a Detroiter, you have a rare opportunity every Labor Day weekend. Don’t miss out next year. Between these two events, you can’t go wrong.

In the next few posts of this series, I will attempt to outline seven steps for godly decision-making in light of a biblical understanding of God’s will. Some may find these steps to be “unspiritual”, especially for those raised in classical Pentecost. I believe, however, that these steps follow a scriptural model for decision-making that balances submitting to God’s sovereignty and understanding our responsibility to make godly decisions. Dallas Willard expressed it this way:

"[God] calls us to responsible citizenship in His kingdom by -- in effect or reality -- saying, as often as possible: MY WILL FOR YOU IS FOR YOU TO DECIDE ON YOUR OWN."
~ Dallas Willard, Hearing God

I am not suggesting (nor is Willard) that God is unconcerned about our decisions or that we should ignore God entirely in our decision-making. I am simply saying that God does not desire to micro-manage our lives. He generally* wants us to follow the guidance He has already given us in scripture, as the Holy Spirit enables us. Those guidelines are what I will attempt to outline.

Step 1: Evaluate the decision in light of God’s Moral Will.

This is the first and most critical step of the process. Our decisions must be ruled by God’s commands, first and foremost. When God’s Word speaks on a subject, the decision is made for us. This means it is vitally important for us to know God’s Word, just as David expressed in Psalm 119:11. However, it is rarely possible to read the entire bible looking for guidance each time we make a decision. That is why it is also necessary to bathe this step in prayer to allow the Holy Spirit to help us remember and recognize the areas of scripture that apply to our decision.

Another key point is that when I refer to God’s Moral Will, I mean all of His revealed will in scripture. It is not limited to sin-related commands (the “do nots”), but also positive commandments. For example, Romans 12:6-8 commands us to use the gifts we have been given for the benefit of the body of Christ. Whether or not you would consider it a sin to ignore this command (I would argue that it is), it is at least a moral imperative that must enter into our decision-making process. Likewise, it can be inferred that John 6:12 teaches us to not be wasteful (Proverbs 21:20 is more explicit), which I consider a part of God’s Moral Will.
 
Step 2: Examine your motives

Some would rightly consider this step to be part of step 1, and they would be right. Our motives are a moral issue before God, who knows our hearts. Jesus repeatedly condemned the Pharisees for doing the right things for the wrong reasons. (Ex. Luke 11:42) We must be concerned about the same in our decision-making. The “why” component of our decisions is just as important as the “what” component of our decisions. Our motives are an issue of God’s Moral Will, but because of the importance of motives and our tendency to forget about motives, I like to separate this into its own decision-making step.

No godly decision can be made before these two steps are completed. They are always the starting point. In fact, many decisions can be made simply by evaluating these two criteria. In any case, we can move forward in the decision-making process only if our motives are pure and our possible choices do not violate God’s Moral Will. Quite often, however, we must move beyond these two steps to come to a decision. And we shall…in the next entry.

* I believe there are times when God will supernaturally intervene in our decision-making through the voice of the Holy Spirit, but he does that in His timing and for His purposes, not ours. More on this to follow.

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I'll be continuing the Will of God series ASAP, now that the conversion is done. Thanks for being patient.

This is a public service announcement. I'm going to be switching blog software this weekend. I've been testing DasBlog and I like it quite a bit. It will make my blogging life much easier. There are a couple minor drawbacks (no HTML allowed in comments), but the benefits (email notification, searching, categories, trackback/pingback support, etc.) outweigh them by far. I was able to move the current blog history and comments over to DasBlog, so we shouldn't lose anything.

I'm announcing this now because if you read my blog via an RSS feed, the URL of the feed will be changing. Check back after the changeover to find out exactly what it will be.

My series on the will of God has been generating more comments (finally!), which is nice. I want to warn those commenting, however, that I'm using REALLY low-end blog software. It doesn't notify me when there are new comments. I do the best I can to review old posts to look for comments, but I may not always catch them. If I haven't responded to your comment, I'm not ignoring you intentionally. If I've missed your comment and you're waiting for a response...email me.

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I know I promised to begin discussing a framework for Godly decision-making, but I need to take a brief side-trip first. If you’ve been following this series, you’re probably at a frustrating point right now. “What happened to the wonderful plan?” you may ask. “If there’s no wonderful plan for my life, what’s the point?” Well, I’m not trying to say that God doesn’t have a wonderful plan for your life. What I’m trying to say is that He generally does not reveal it to us ahead of time. The “wonderful plan” is His Sovereign Will for creation. Therein lies the difficulty; understanding the sovereignty of God has been one of the great challenges for Christian thinkers across the centuries. A disagreement over the nature of the sovereignty of God is at the heart of the primary doctrinal division within Protestantism, that being the division between Calvinists and Arminians.

I do not presume to resolve that centuries-old debate with my feeble efforts, nor do I intend to address the issue of predestination and divine election in this series. If you are interested in those questions, I encourage you to click through to The Schooley Files. Keith is in the midst of a wonderful series on that topic that I highly recommend. That being said, there is no way to discuss the will of God without addressing the topic of God’s sovereignty. Suffice it to say that I consider myself a moderate Arminian; I believe wholeheartedly in the sovereignty of God, and I believe that God has created man with a free will. In this blog entry, I will attempt to explain how I believe these two facts interact with each other.

God’s sovereignty is an undeniable assertion of scripture. That is, He is the controlling, sustaining power over all creation. How God exercises His sovereignty is the question that vexes us. Scripture is not explicit, so it is clearly not necessary for us to fully understand it. We are, however, allowed to wonder and make assumptions. Clearly, scripture tells us we have the ability and responsibility to make decisions. Therefore we are free to make decisions. How is that possible if God is sovereign? The answer is, God has created mankind with the ability to make choices. Is it possible for God to control or pre-program every decision we make? Certainly. Does He choose to do so? I don’t believe so. Some would say I’m putting limits on God’s sovereignty, I don’t see it that way. In fact, I believe it gives MORE glory to God to imagine that He can accomplish His sovereign plan through and in spite of our choices, rather than by controlling them.

I don’t believe that God exercises His Sovereign Will over every decision we make. Crest or Close-Up? Paper or plastic? Chocolate or vanilla? I don’t know of anyone who prays seeking “God’s will” for such decisions, or even expects God to care. Even if you believe in a Personal Will of God for your life, you live your life making decisions about what it does and does not cover. Generally, those decisions are based on how worried we are about the impact of our decision. We want God to relieve us of any responsibility if things don’t work out the way we hope. That very idea is contrary to God’s character. He wants us to make decisions, both good and bad, and learn from them. No matter what decision we make, His Sovereign Will is accomplished in our lives. I love the way A.W. Tozer expresses this:

Except for those things that are specifically commanded or forbidden, it is God's will that we be free to exercise our own intelligent choice. The shepherd will lead the sheep but he does not wish to decide which tuft of grass the sheep shall nibble each moment of the day. In almost everything touching our common life on earth God is pleased when we are pleased. He wills that we be as free as birds to soar and sing our Maker's praise without anxiety. God's choice for us may not be one but any one of a score of possible choices. The man or woman who is wholly and joyously surrendered to Christ cannot make a wrong choice. Any choice will be the right one.

~A.W. Tozer, The Set of the Sail, chapter 21

That brings us back to the question at hand: How do we make “our own intelligent choice?” Has God left us completely on our own without any guidance at all? Absolutely not! His Word gives us guidelines for godly decision-making and that’s what I’ll begin to outline next. I promise.

The rest of the series:

Part 1: Introduction
Part 2: Defining our Terms
Part 3: A Wonderful Plan?
Part 4: The Decision-making of the Apostles